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Thursday, January 16, 2025

Bugs, Flowers, and Braids

I made Phoebe choose clothes this morning (since Andrew let her stay in her pyjamas all day yesterday—I don't mind the fact that he let her stay in her jammies all day (goodness knows I've done that) but I felt like two days in the same jammies was a bit much). She came to me with this outfit:


Pumpkins and Sweaters in January

In October, Jessica (who teaches in the primary, although she wasn't Phoebe's teacher) gave her class and Phoebe a pumpkin. Jessica always brings an extra [whatever] for Phoebe (she's very sweet like that, even if she judges my attachment to my cheap tupperware). 

Phoebe has insisted on being tucked into bed with that pumpkin ever since and every night we'd give the pumpkin a little squeeze to see if it was...starting to...you know...turn. Finally the day arrived that its once-rigid exterior developed a bit of give to it, if you will. We knew something had to be done sooner rather than later. 

So we made a big deal about picking out the perfect orange on Sunday morning so that Mommy could make her a stuffed pumpkin to replace her real pumpkin (which we invited her to toss into the garden to see if any baby pumpkins will come of it). 

Here she is picking out her orange:

Six Conversations from Facebook

In all honesty I am trying to move away from Facebook (Meta)...but it's just such a convenient place for storing little conversations throughout the day. So here are some conversations I've been storing up since the weekend...

1) While getting ready to head outside to play in the leftover snow (probably on Saturday or Sunday).

Phoebe: Will you put garbage bags on my feet?
Me: Sure. I can help you with that.
Phoebe (to Miriam): Are you putting garbage bags on?
Miriam: No. I am going to exercise self-restraint.
Phoebe: Oh. Well, I am not going to do that.
Me: I pretty much bank on you not doing that in any given situation, so...
Phoebe: And that's why I need garbage bags?
Me: And that's why you need garbage bags.

Wednesday, January 15, 2025

A funny thing happened on the way [from] the office

When Rachel and I were driving home from campus today, I noticed a plume of smoke rising around the corner. 

"Something's happening up there," I said. "You need to move over."

Fortunately, we were fairly alone on the road at that moment (changing lanes can be tricky). We rounded the corner and immediately saw the cause of the smoke. A large vehicle—what seemed to be a moving van—was engulfed in flames.


Home church

Phoebe was so baffled by "home church" on Sunday that she hardly knew what to do with herself. It's a little strange to us that she can't remember "home church," but she can't...so I think all these pandemic babies will turn out alright. 

Sometimes when I remember that I had to go through labour with a mask on, wasn't allowed to leave my hospital room for any reason, and was only allowed to have a single visitor in the hospital...it feels like some strange dream. But that's the world she was born into. 

And I know people thought we were crazy for keeping her home from church (and all social situations) for so long, but I really don't think it's had a lasting impact on her psyche. 

All that is to say that we had "home church" on Sunday and Phoebe thought it was so interesting. 

First she wanted to know whether she had to change into church clothes. When I told her she could stay in her pyjamas she was overjoyed. She loves a good pyjama day!

She thought it was awesome that we had our own little sacrament trays. 

And she loved watching Joseph Smith: The Prophet of the Restoration, which is what we did for our lesson time.

I was secretly relieved to get a break from singing time (I'd done so much playing in the snow that I was behind in my schoolwork plans and thus hadn't even looked at singing time) but I'm glad we'll be back this week. I've been low-key on the lookout for a Wheel-of-Fortune spinny wheel thing (mostly on the Buy Nothing Group) for singing time and...I just got one today!

Andrew picked it up for me while I was on campus today so I just saw it when I got home and it's much bigger than I expected...which will be great for primary (less great for storing the thing, but that's okay).

Saturday, January 11, 2025

Sledding videos

I feel like I'm running out of time to devote to blogging at the moment. I still have a ton of reading to do for my classes next week. So...here are some videos of everyone sledding...I still have more pictures to get off of people's phones (of, like, me, for example). We'll see if that happens. Oh! One more good story is that...Andrew lost his phone!

It fell out of his pocket while he was sledding and we hunted around for a few moments before we realized that we could just do "find my phone" for him. But when I tried to do that with my phone it wouldn't let me ping him for some reason. So instead I just called him and hoped for the best. Miriam located it, sunk deep into a pile of leaves at the bottom of the hill (thank goodness). 

When we got back up to the top of the hill we met a little neighbour boy hunting around for his lost glasses. Those are much harder to find than a phone because (a) you can't just call it and have it ring and (b) you're half blind while looking for it. But we managed to find those as well (thank goodness). 

Sledding can be dangerous!

But it's so fun! I told the kids about ice blocking and suggested they do it for a church activity (I did it a couple of times when I was a kid). They could even put down a slip and slide or something so they don't ruin the grass... Our youth group used to do sledding activities when I was growing up, too...but those are harder to plan for and carry out down in the south. Ice blocking is a more...dependable...activity.

Anyway...we're here for sledding videos! Here they are:

Snow day (part one)

There were a couple of times last night when the power turned off with such finality that I would think—in the dark—"This is it. We've got to..."

And then the power would come back on before I even had a chance to think through precisely what we needed to do to make it through the night without power. Laugh all you want—it's not that cold and this wasn't that much snow, but our houses simply aren't built or insulated the same way they are in the north. Our pipes are more likely to freeze and burst. Our upstairs can be incredibly drafty. And that's just how it is. 

But, we were some of the lucky ones. Our power stayed on (for the most part, though it definitely shut off at least a dozen times over the course of the evening).

Anyway, I'm ready for Part One of our Snow Day adventure. The kids are tucked away watching Frozen (Phoebe's first time, in her memory) after coming in from a disappointing second day of snow...it's all melted and refrozen...and just not the same as the fresh snow. So, here are some memories from yesterday...

Phoebe was obsessed with eating the snow. She did not understand how to work her hands in her mittens—although she can recite "Thumb in the thumb place, fingers altogether," and does so while we're putting on her mittens, she tends to stick her thumb in with the rest of her fingers and then her hands are useless in her mittens. So instead she just throws herself into the snow face-first to take in all the snowy goodness.

Snow day (part 2)

I suppose I should really start with the morning when I woke up at 8:00 to the sounds of someone clomping down the driveway. I glanced out the window and noticed that Mother Nature had not let us down—it had, in fact, snowed! And someone was probably coming to see if the kids could play.

So I hopped out of bed, threw on my housecoat, and rushed to wake the kids.

But, as it turns out, they woke up at the crack of dawn to head outside and it was them clomping up to their own house to get something. 

As Zoë put it, "My alarm went off at 7:35. We were outside by 7:40."

The rest of us were outside by 8:30, probably. And we enjoyed a lovely morning sledding with the neighbours, and building snowmen, chatting and chattering.

The kids went back out for round two in the afternoon, but I stayed inside to nap study (and, boy, was it a good study nap session). By this time it was sleeting more than snowing so most of the neighbours chose to stay inside, but one little neighbour and his mom came outside to play with the kids and I'm so glad they did because the mom had been too shy to try sledding when all the neighbours were out...but when it was just my kids out...she decided to give it a go (or three or four go's). 

The kids wanted to head back out for a walk after dinner. By this time we were mostly getting plain ol' frozen rain. See how all those drips are changing to icicles? Everything is covered in ice out there.


Friday, January 10, 2025

Chapstick tales

Phoebe loves chapstick (as previously discussed). Here are a couple new chapstick stories...

First, I've had to move my personal chapstick from location to location to keep it away from an ever-mobile (and ever-chapstick craving) Phoebe. I moved chapstick from my desk, onto the shelf beside my desk, all the way to the shelf mounted on the wall above my computer because Phoebe just kept finding ways to get it. 

The other day she came in complaining that she wanted chapstick but that she couldn't find hers. I was in the middle of doing something, so I just stood up to grab mine (because I have to stand up to reach my chapstick otherwise Phoebe can get it) and said, "Here—you can use mine."

"Really? Your weird, round chapstick?!"

"Yes," I told her. "My...weird, round...chapstick."

I have an eos chapstick...that is...evidently...weird and round.

"Wow! Thanks letting me use your weird, round chapstick, Mom!" she said. "Can I hold it?"

"Yes, you can hold it."

"Wow! Thanks letting me hold your weird, round chapstick!"

Such an honour.

Thursday, January 09, 2025

Grocery bags as snow pants

Just a friendly reminder to my southern friends that if you don't have snow gear, you can make your own with plastic bags! It's easier done with little kids (see here, here, here, and here). But I'll probably be fashioning myself a nice pair of plastic pants tomorrow so I can go out with the kids.

Here's skeptical Benjamin rocking a pair of snow pants in 2014: