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Thursday, April 16, 2026

Venomous Venetians

We went for a walk today. I was holding Phoebe's hand and walking beside Benjamin. We were talking about the trees, how green and leafy they're getting. We were noting what kind of trees he likes and what kind of trees they have elsewhere in the world. 

And then Phoebe came to a sudden halt. My arm yanked backwards, pulling me off balance. 

"Whaaat?" I asked with a little more impatience than was probably necessary. 

My patience is thin these days. We are on a countdown to the end of the semester and I am frustrated by all of my final projects. I cannot seem to pull any of them together. My brain is feeling pulled in a thousand directions and I wish it would stop, that we could just fast forward to the end. But I also want time to slow down...so that I have time to finish these projects, see?

Plus, Phoebe yanks on my arm frequently when we walk. She will come to a screeching halt to look at a rock or a pinecone or a leaf. She'll drop into a squat to examine an ant or pick some wood sorrel. Or her shoe will come loose. Or she'll see an airplane and stop to stare. 

And every time I'll about feel like she's going to yank my arm off. 

Monday, April 13, 2026

Swimming Awards Banquet

This afternoon we got to go to Benjamin's swimming awards banquet. He's had a really great season and has improved so much, so it really was no surprise when he was called up as the most improved swimmer on the silver team.


"And while he's up here, Ben's also our practice champ. Ben is always there, ready to work hard—even asking for more work!" Coach Harrison told everyone. 

He's on task, he's cheerful, he never complains, he helps others stay on task...he's just great!

Stress basket

Before we got married, my mother warned Andrew that I was, and I quote, a "stress basket," and that he'd have to handle me with care at certain times (because I was a "little ball of nerves" or something like that).

I was like, "I don't think so. I'm perfectly chill."

My mom just rolled her eyes. 

Andrew assured her he could handle it me.

First of all, my mom was right (of course) and second, Andrew's been great. 

He quickly learned how to notice when I'm feeling overwhelmed and either helps me work through things or simply tucks me in for a nap (I get very tired when I'm stressed out).

It could be said that I'm stressed out now. 

I have so many final projects due and life is going about a million miles an hour and my brain is...well...

Sunday, April 12, 2026

Saying Goodby to Grandpa and Darla

Grandpa spent his first day of retirement taking the kids bowling. It was the first time for several of the children because we haven't gone bowling here. I honestly couldn't remember why we hadn't just taken the kids bowling...until Reid told us how much it cost. Let's just say "Private Equity Bowlero Ruining Bowling" isn't a sensational title. I was fully expecting the fees to be around $5 per person per game...maybe even $10 (it's been a while since we've been bowling). I was not expecting round $30 per person—talk about exorbitant! 

But the kids had fun. 

And we remembered why we have never gone bowling here. 

Miriam finished with her finals on Wednesday, so she was available to go bowling with everyone. I asked her to be my photographer (Andrew and I stayed home to work). 

Here's Benjamin:


Friday, April 10, 2026

Dentists and Diners

Andrew took two of the kids to the dentist on Monday and I took three of the kids to the dentist today. Between the seven of us we had zero cavities! I'm always glad when that happens because I don't really enjoy going to the dentist. 

But sometimes we have to do things we don't enjoy, right?

(Hopefully Rachel is brushing her teeth, too.)

Phoebe went first and she asked if I could stay with her, so I sat nearby while she had her cleaning and examination. She did so well—she's come a long way from when she needed me to hold her on my lap while all the dental assistants blew bubbles and sang songs to try to get her to stop screaming.

Wednesday, April 08, 2026

The kids' trip to DC! (March 8-13)

Before Grandpa and Darla got married, Grandpa had talked about taking Benjamin and Zoë up to Washington, DC, as he had done with Rachel and Miriam. Last year was the year he decided he was going to do it, but just before it was time to head out...Grandpa had a medical emergency. So the trip was postponed for six more months, but just before it was time to head out...the government shut down.

So the trip was postponed again until March of this year, a kind of final hurrah before Grandpa and Darla leave for their mission (which has been a whole nother circus of events requiring patience and adaptability because they were first assigned to Jordan and then to the UAE somewhere and now to...nowhere in particular...but definitely in Salt Lake for a while). Anyway, they did finally make it on their DC trip. 

Grandpa sent me this itinerary:

Benjamin's DC report (a guest post by Benjamin)

This is the first time I went to Washington DC with the capability to remember things. I have gone before, most notably in 2014, and 2016. I also went in November of 2012, but I was a tiny baby then so I really don’t remember anything at all. Rachel and Miriam have taken this trip before with Grandpa.  Their record walking distance was ten miles. We did not walk ten miles in the blazing hot sun as Rachel and Miriam did, but we did walk 6 miles the first day and 8 the next, which brings our total to 14, which is higher than theirs. This trip was the third time we planned out the dates. We had originally decided to go in September of 2025, but Grandpa had surgery and couldn't go. The second time we planned it, the government shut down for 43 days–both breaking the previous record and closing all the museums we wanted to go to. This third time, however, was not postponed, so we were able to go.

Washington D.C is our nation's capital. It's where the seat of government sits and it's where many people live in and travel to. It was founded as “Compromise Capital”, as the government wanted a place to be outside of an actual state. My Grandpa said that L'Enfant Plaza is called that because it has so many museums and kids love going to museums. Which is true but I think he was joking because it was actually named after the architect who designed the city on land that New York and Maryland donated whose name was Pierre Charles L'Enfant. It is built on the Potomac for many reasons. The first being that no one wanted that land because it was swampy and gross so that's why the states donated it. And the second is that it helps with defense because an attacking army can only really invade from one side. That second reason however is posing problems as the city expands as it makes commuting harder for those who live across the river. As there are only so many bridges and metro lines for commuters to use to get to work. Speaking of the metro, we used it to get around everywhere. So I will talk about it next.

The Metro

The metro in Washington DC is not the best in the world that goes to multiple ones in Asia but it tries to be clean and a thing that people want to use. We mostly used the blue line train because it's the one that we needed but we did use orange and silver sometimes as well. I loved using the metro and not touching the car for a week. I have many funny stories but the best one is when Zoë got stuck behind the gate. She swiped her card and then grandpa said Zoë! Over here she went over and tried to swipe her card on the other side but she could not go to the other side twice so grandpa had her go in front of him and he succeeded! But right as she went through it closed on him! And so he had to hand Darla his card so she swiped it on one side and then gave it to him and then he swiped it on the side that he was on and finally went through. We then went up the stairs and to the spy museum.

Lincoln

Lincoln was our country's 16th president. He was the first one assassinated and has left a mark on our history.The Lincoln memorial uses stone from all across the country to symbolise how Lincoln brought unity to the states. The terrace walls and lower steps comprise granite blocks from Massachusetts, the upper steps, outside facade, and columns contain marble blocks from Colorado, the interior walls and columns are Indiana limestone, the floor is pink Tennessee marble, the ceiling tiles are Alabama marble, and the Lincoln statue comprises 28 pieces of Georgia marble. The statue is 19 feet tall and one hundred and seventy five tons. The Gettysburg address is carved into the wall on the right of the Lincoln statue and his second inaugural address is carved into the wall on the left of the statue.

The entire monument is based on the Parthenon in Ancient Greece, which was once the largest temple of Athena in the world. 

Tuesday, April 07, 2026

2026 Easter Egg Smackdown

Fitting all of our Easter traditions in between sessions of conference was quite the feat! We dyed eggs after the Saturday afternoon session (shortly before Benjamin and Miriam headed out to a Sunday School party). Here are Alexander and Phoebe waiting so patiently for the dye tablets to finish dissolving:

Monday, April 06, 2026

Easter Basket (cases)

Before we went to bed on Saturday night, both Phoebe and Alexander had to check in about our traditions. Alexander wanted to know if we would be reading our scripture eggs on the way down the stairs (absolutely). Phoebe wanted to know if this was the day the Easter Bunny would be stopping by (she was okay with this...unlike the leprechauns).

I think they're first of all making sure that we're prepared ("Did you get candy?!"), but also just verifying what precisely these holidays are about (religiously and otherwise). My phone camera was rather glitchy today (it didn't want to take any pictures and the pictures it did get were often blurry and I'm not sure why it couldn't focus today), so excuse the photographic evidence of our day.

Here are Benjamin, Phoebe, and Alexander hiding and waiting in our bed while we were waiting for Zoë and Miriam to come upstairs...so that we could go downstairs together:

Friday, April 03, 2026

Pranks

Recently I decided to part with some lovely gooseneck chairs that Reid let me take when we moved away from Spanish Fork, but which I think Karen actually claimed when Reid's office building went 100% remote. We've had a good run with them, but it was time to let them go. 

Part of the issue is that although I think they're great chairs, we've never quite had a place for them in this house. They've been "floating" chairs, roving from this room to that, with no permanent location to call home. 

And that's on me, I'm sure. 

If I was better at decorating things might have ended better between us. 

Anyway, in December we moved one of these chairs into Andrew's office to make space for the Christmas tree. So it just awkwardly sat in a corner of Andrew's office...between his desk and his bookshelf...all through Christmas break and then all through this semester as well. We never put it back where it had been before. And it became one of my frequent haunts.